| 8 hours ago | mod | Removed Comment Not like you hive-minded sheeple would even acknowledge any opinion contrary to the masses here so you can fuck off with your self-righteous egocentric BULLSHIT as if you would have listened if I didn't use slurs. by  @reactionality@lemmy.sdf.orgreason: Rude comment |
| 17 hours ago | mod | Removed Post Are there any lemmy instances that support freedom of speech? reason: . |
| 18 hours ago | mod | Removed Comment Another retard from the woodworks. by @reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org reason: Rude, ableist |
| 2 days ago | mod | Removed Comment If you need to unload deep emotional shit, that's for a therapist. They have clear boundaries and can be detached from the situation. As a parent of a 26 year old man who can't function without calling his mom multiple times a day to complain about fucking everything—don't use people close to you for that. Or if you have to, don't do it often.
They don't really know how to help you in most cases, but it puts your burdens them. The phrase our son's therapist uses is to be your own tape and glue.
That said, you also probably need just mundane social interaction, too. Friends. Best bet for that is get involved with something people do together. Karaoke night, classes, biking, activism, church if religion is your thing.
If none of that works for you, try functional alcoholism. I'm not saying it's a good idea but people have relied on that for thousands of years, and when/if it causes enduring to crash down, you'll have court mandated sobriety groups. I hope this is clearly tongue-in-cheek, but the serious answer here is when you look around and wonder how everyone else is holding their shit together and you're struggling, the answer is they aren't, they are just hiding it for the most part, and until quite recently, heavy drinking was a socially acceptable form of self-medication.
TLDR: Find a hobby to distract yourself. Give yourself something to focus on that isn't whatever is bubbling beneath the surface that you have no outlet for. Get some therapy so that you do have an outlet for that stuff because it's not kind to lay heavy stuff at others' feet. by @MagicShel@lemmy.zip reason: Harmful advice |
| 2 days ago | mod | Banned @Letsdothisagain@lemmy.world from the community reason: Ban evasion: LW instance |
| 2 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Sorry, should I be donating *more* than 20% of my paycheck to charity? Should I be volunteering for *more* than 12 hours/week?
What are ***you*** doing for your neighbors, you dumb cunt? by @Ledivin@lemmy.world reason: Rule 1 |
| 4 days ago | mod | Removed Post Is there a way to mass ignore/block users that post too regularly? reason: Rule 5 |
| 5 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Well, did he ever kill anybody or were you being a pussy? We have 10 years of data to confirm one of these. by @anonApril2025@lemmy.zip reason: Rude |
| 6 days ago | mod | Removed Post I didn't ask you to ask me questions about politics, but why was my post deleted? reason: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. |
| 6 days ago | mod | Banned @BULAJI@lemm.ee from the community reason: bad faith arguments and general hostility. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. |
| 6 days ago | mod | Removed Post Are there any things about China that you're unsure of and need me, a Chinese person, to verify whether they are right or wrong? reason: This thread did not stay civil very long... |
| 6 days ago | mod | Removed Post How to replicate r/Borrow on Lemmy reason: Rule 5 |
| 6 days ago | mod | Removed Post Comment Section on Connect Client is grey screen reason: Rule 5 |
| 7 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Don't answer any questions from .ml they are tankie scum that want to keep you enslaved by  ihatebirdsreason: . |
| 8 days ago | mod | Removed  asudox as a mod to the community |
| 10 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Eww tankie instance.
You need to keep your troll farm posts in .ml by  @SoftestSapphic@lemmy.worldreason: rudeness |
| 10 days ago | mod | Restored Post I am North Korean who lives in NK AMA |
| 10 days ago | mod | Removed Post I am North Korean who lives in NK AMA reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment I see now my comment had a typo: it should have read *not* previous poster at the start. No, more I felt like I might be "getting ahead" of the tariffs a bit by prepping some and now that preparation is more than wiped out if these pharmaceutical ones happen
For the record: I happen to care about everyone being impacted negatively by the tariffs, up to and including the hapless fuckwits that voted for it. If that still reads like being selfish, I think you're *trying* to read it that way by  @iamtrashman1312@lemmy.worldreason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment You should definitely go to that neo-nazi rally, make Adolph proud!
by @MilitantAtheist@lemmy.world reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment It isnt an insult, it's an observation.
And now you show your true colours and comfirm my assessment. You hate people based on where they're born. You need a deep look into the mirror or youll end up in a very dark place where your mind will rot further and further, consumed by hate.
Maybe youll find that you hate yourself and are projecting. by @vxx@lemmy.world reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment lol I'm not following your opa to the eastern front for US imperialism.
I'm sure the germs can't wait to get destroyed again.
I'll just move and have a laugh but have fun by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment A really high horse you're sitting on with PVV at 24% in the last election.
Self reflection, you need it desperately.
Fix your own country before blaming others.
I could go on my bike and visit you in less than an hour, so tell me how different we are from another, neighbour.
Yeah, I forgot that netherland was never on the wrong side of history. And since you don't translate your movies, you're definitely superior to anyone.
Do you listen to yourself sometimes?
You sound like a Nazi
Arent we supposed stand together against the enemy that's trying to weaken our democracy and make it an autocraty? by @vxx@lemmy.world reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment You're the one suffering from projection.
I made an neuttral observation and you immediately replied with insults.
I am in a very good place, I avoid germs like the plague since they are incapable of acting like normal humans.
As is shown here again.
Your pseudo-psychological profiling isn't worth shit.
If anything ask yourself what's wrong with your own ultra-nationalistic country.
Having films dubbed, their universally hated awful tourists speaking germ in other countries and thinking everyone should understand them.
Always on the wrong side of history, now supporting the Isntreal genociders and their police beating up peaceful protesters.
You really can't control yourself for long can you?
They should build a wall around it.
I know historically you can't seem to not impose yourselves or go into places they don't want you but just shut up and go away, the weather is good, I'mgoing to have fun (look up what it means), some miserable germ isn't going to ruin my day.
by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Rudeness |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment LOL stil obsessing about that word (which the germ couldn't capitalise)
Again, if you have no reading comprehension: It's about him getting mad like a nasty germ getting insulting.
Also I told you to fuck off. I'll just have to block you since historically you nazis never can take a hint and keep going you're not wanted.
by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Rudeness |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Who TF cares about a word, it's about the awful germ being a typical germ and calling me an asshole for it.
I told him to get lost and you can do the same, get a life. by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Rudeness |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment There you go, the germ is butthurt and starts the insults.
I could call you an asshole but you are a Germ so that's already worse. by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Rudeness |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Reading comprehension isnt your forte, is it?
I told you I watched Dr Who in it's original language. Glad you could feel superior for a second because of autocorrect.
What an asshole by @vxx@lemmy.world reason: . |
| 11 days ago | mod | Removed Post Do you also notice that a lot of Lemmy users do not get irony, sarcasm etc subtelty? reason: . |
| 12 days ago | mod | Banned @regisseurechino@lemmy.net.au from the community reason: nicole spam |
| 14 days ago | mod | Removed Post Can anyone think of a fix for this problem I'm having with Lemmy.world? reason: Rule 5 |
| 14 days ago | mod | Removed Post What is your favorite movie with 4 words that stars with R? reason: Low effort |
| 14 days ago | mod | Removed Post Would a gangstalker or a governmental agency be interest in gangstalking a female primary psychopath? reason: Concerning conspiracy theories |
| 15 days ago | mod | Removed Post Failed to set a named property 'chatLogs' on 'Storage': Setting the value of 'chatLogs' exceeded the quota. reason: Rule 5 |
| 15 days ago | mod | Removed Post pedophilia due to mental illness reason: Rule 4. |
| 15 days ago | mod | Removed Post Do you think it's blasphemy to worship putin instead of Stalin? reason: Low effort bait |
| 16 days ago | mod | Removed Post Is the Trump administration quietly preparing for catastrophic climate change? reason: Rule 6 |
| 16 days ago | mod | Removed Post ChonkyOwlbear and the Trouble with Moderating reason: Not the place for this. |
| 17 days ago | mod | Removed Post Those who voted for Trump, are you currently regretting the decision and if so why? (serious) reason: rule 6 |
| 17 days ago | mod | Removed Post Other than China, which country produces the worst tourists? reason: . |
| 17 days ago | mod | Removed Post If the U.S. were to rewrite all of its laws tomorrow, what are the things that Democrats and Republicans would agree on? reason: Rule 6 |
| 21 days ago | mod | Banned @rainrain@sh.itjust.works from the community reason: Troll |
| 23 days ago | mod | Banned @mez@lemmy.world from the community reason: Troll |
| 23 days ago | mod | Removed Comment so it makes no difference to you if your mom was a hooker instead of a teacher? really? what's your mental illness? by @mez@lemmy.world reason: Uncivil |
| 25 days ago | mod | Banned @Letsdothisok@lemmy.world from the community reason: Troll |
| 25 days ago | mod | Removed Comment If you want to pretend to know something about China and badmouth them you should at least know the CCP doesn't exist.
The CPC does. by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Troll? First warning |
| 25 days ago | mod | Removed Comment Your confused with the non-existing country Taiwan
Your comment literally translates as CPC.
Besides the nasty insult you paid propaganda people can't do without apparently. by @Bloomcole@lemmy.world reason: Ad hominem |
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