• _cryptagion [he/him]
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          122 days ago

          I’m not the mod. He was temp banned by somebody else, for being a dick and excusing slurs against neurodivergent people. I just called it before it happened because I’ve seen plenty of other ableist dicks get banned for it.

          • @ipitco@lemmybefree.netOP
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            -122 days ago

            Yea, like… me for saying the ban was stupid?

            This is getting ridiculous now

            Good thing I made the community heh

            • _cryptagion [he/him]
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              322 days ago

              you said a temp ban for ableist slurs on an instance run by neurodivergents was “fucking stupid”, when the OP refused to edit their post to remove the slurs. what did you think was gonna happen? you got a temp ban yourself, it’s hardly the end of the world.

              • @ipitco@lemmybefree.netOP
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                122 days ago

                when the OP refused to edit their post to remove the slurs

                They claim they haven’t received the opportunity to

                what did you think was gonna happen?

                A discussion to get their logic and side of the story?

                Nah, banning is better. This way people will learn and change for sure, definitely won’t grow to hate db0 more and more…

                There wasn’t even any slur, like come on, at least try making valid reasons. Anyone with a little good faith can understand what was meant by the message and that it wasn’t made to make fun of mental disorders

                • _cryptagion [he/him]
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                  122 days ago

                  Nah, banning is better. This way people will learn and change for sure, definitely won’t grow to hate db0 more and more…

                  if people hate us because they can’t act like that on our instance without getting a ban, then that’s really their problem, not ours. nobody needs to be federated with us if they think we’re too sensitive or woke. that’s the beauty of fedi, if you don’t like our space, you can go make your own. like you did.

                  but don’t expect us to cater to your whims. you don’t pay the bills to keep our instance running. you don’t even live there. you don’t get a say in how we curate our instance.

                  • @ipitco@lemmybefree.netOP
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                    -122 days ago

                    Turned out from “we’re right” to “if you don’t like it, leave”

                    I have switched instances over some time and frankly I kind of have enough of it. At some point I’m thinking about making my own instance because I have enough of it all. We will see

                    but don’t expect us to cater to your whims. you don’t pay the bills to keep our instance running. you don’t even live there. you don’t get a say in how we curate our instance.

                    Being open to discussion shouldn’t be a luxury

        • @ipitco@lemmybefree.netOP
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          -222 days ago

          It’s funny that the person, who is really upset about a poorly chosen word and someone getting offended by it, defends Luigi Mangione, a killer

          You really see the contrast. Cherry pick your defending cause and axis. A bit incoherent

          • Deceptichum
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            122 days ago

            Wait you don’t defend Luigi? What piece of shit are you.

            • @ipitco@lemmybefree.netOP
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              -122 days ago

              Yea you’re right, defending someone who murdered a rich guy. How brave

              you’re the piece of shit if you believe everyone should support his action

              • Deceptichum
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                322 days ago

                A rich guy responsible for hundreds of thousands of deaths through policy and leadership.

                  • Deceptichum
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                    322 days ago

                    Oh yeah because everyone is upper management and responsible for the direction the company goes.