DARVO is an acronym used to describe a common strategy of abusers. The abuser will: Deny the abuse ever took place, then Attack the victim for attempting to hold the abuser accountable; then they will lie and claim that they, the abuser, are the real victim in the situation, thus Reversing the Victim and Offender.”

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7048288/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7178134/

My alt is currently suffering from the above, I apologize for his behavior.