• @Snapz@lemmy.world
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    4211 months ago

    It actually won’t, it will incorrectly attempt to identify and exclude people, but it won’t work, because this is all snake oil horseshit perpetrated by attention seeking grifters.

    • Jojo, Lady of the West
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      311 months ago

      It’ll exclude plenty of people, it just won’t do a good job of selectively excluding trans people.

  • Queen HawlSera
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    3811 months ago

    So far the app has already banned a featherless hen and its own creator (seriously)

    • @jeffw@lemmy.worldOP
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      811 months ago

      Plot twist: she only wanted to come out as trans so she cooked up this ridiculous idea to out herdelh

    • katy ✨
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      211 months ago

      funny enough terfs already tried this once before and ran into literally the same problems.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 🏆
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    The best part: The creator (a woman) couldn’t even pass her own app’s test; it said she was a man with 97% certainty. 🤣 TERF didn’t check herself, and thus wrecked herself.

  • r3df0x ✡️✝☪️
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    The transphobe Chloe Cole won’t be able to use it.

    If bathroom laws pass, she will never be able to use a public bathroom.

  • nifty
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    1711 months ago

    Who’d want to date anyone who uses this app anyways?

    • katy ✨
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      211 months ago

      shhh let them all splinter between this, the right stuff, and christian mingle so they never procreate

  • @gnuplusmatt@reddthat.com
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    isn’t this solving a problem that doesn’t really exist? I’d have thought most trans people on dating apps would be fairly up front about it… you know for safety or even just expectations management? I can’t speak from experience, my dating life predates the rise of dating apps

    • @twig@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Yes, trans folks tend to be pretty upfront for the reasons you mentioned.

      This is just some hateful, bullshit, trans panic nonsense. Some people can’t even handle the idea that they might as a matter of course be attracted to a trans person given the opportunity.

      This tech will inevitably also exclude some slightly less normative appearing cis folks too, but they don’t care because they just hate trans people.

    • @afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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      211 months ago

      Hmm well I admit I haven’t seen many people willing to tell your fortune by cutting open an animal then reading the guts inside. Someone should contact Y-combinator. Maybe work block chain into it somehow.

    • Billiam
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      911 months ago

      Bigots will use anything to justify their bigotry.

    • @Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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      311 months ago

      Yeah… If anyone starts talking too much about the shape of the human skull as if that means anything whatever they are selling ain’t worth the pitch

  • @werefreeatlast@lemmy.world
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    Lol, it’s just really not that hard to get your vagina, tits and face in the same photo. It would be super obvious if there was a penis in between. So maybe they should detect penises? And then they could detect diseases on the penis that would be pretty obvious. So guys would need to upload a photo showing their penis and face in one shot… again pretty easy to do these days.

    • I'll be on ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      It already did, I’m struggling to find the link (E: found it ), but Jenny Watson the woman who launched this shit was found to be like 98% likely to be “a man” by her own software (someone ran the photo of herself she used in the launch tweet)…

  • @Technus@lemmy.zip
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    Not once have I encountered a trans person on a dating app who wasn’t 100% transparent about it. Some even asked me after matching, “you’re aware that I’m trans, right?” just to be sure.

    There’s no logical reason to falsely pretend to be cis on a dating app to get matches. If someone’s cool about it then it’s better to know up front, right? And if they’re not, then you probably don’t want to waste your time on them.

    The “justification” for this app is just bigotry, plain and simple. Fuck TERFs.

    • @14th_cylon@lemm.ee
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      1411 months ago

      Not once have I encountered a trans person on a dating app who wasn’t 100% transparent about it.

      …that you know of. not defending bigots or bullying, but that statement doesn’t make sense.

      • Jojo, Lady of the West
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        311 months ago

        I mean, isn’t that also just true of anyone you’ve interacted with? Their point was that they never “found out” someone they were dating on there was trans, and everyone that dated from those apps who oc every discovered were trans were straightforward about it.

        Why would you need or want to be that precise about your language?

        • @14th_cylon@lemm.ee
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          Their point

          oh geez, thank you for explaining someone else’s point, you must be quite an insider into their thoughts 😂

          was that they never “found out”

          that is not what was said

          why would you need or want to be that precise about your language

          you need to be precise with your language because that is what allows us to communicate ideas to each other and logic through arguments, eventually accepting or refuting them.

          for example you can call these two strawberry, and nuclear submarine, but it is going to seriously hinder your communication with others, because that is now what is commonly understood under these terms.

          you can see it in the comment we are discussing. because i read the implication original commenter tried to make as it never happened to me => it is not a problem that needs to be addressed.

          which is incorrect implication in itself, but more importantly, as i pointed out, the premise of the implication is flawed.

    • Andy
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      This is a great point.

      The technology that excludes transwomen from the app is the clear warning that the app is populated exclusively for transphobes. It’s obviously wildly dangerous for a transwoman to be on the app.

      The notion that AI is going to clock them is absurd AI hype. There’s no reason to expect AI to be capable of this kind of discernment, and that assumes you even had a training set. Where in the absolute fuck would someone find a training set like that?

      Edit: I didn’t read the article. It seems it’s a lesbian dating app. Well, probably less dangerous for transwomen, but still not technically sound.

        • Andy
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          1311 months ago

          Why do you guarantee that? It seems obviously wrong, on a technical level.

          The point I’m making is that even if we take it as a given that a shrewd enough AI could correctly distinguish sex at birth – which I think is obviously impossible based on the appearances of many ciswomen and the nature of statistical prediction – you’d still need a training data set.

          If the dataset has any erroneous input, that corrupts its ability, and the whole point of this exercise is trying to find passing transwomen. Why would anyone expect that training set of hundreds of thousands of supposed cis women wouldn’t have a few transwomen in it?

          • @AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works
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            Because Facebook’s data practices, and how much was volunteered by users on there, means that for some percentage of trans users Facebook knows that they’re trans. And you also have a percentage of pregnancy photos uploaded, if someone identifies as a woman on Facebook, and has uploaded photos with a baby bump, she’s cis (or at least a pre-hatching trans person). And at one point in time, a lot of people just volunteered that info to Facebook.

            • Andy
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              211 months ago

              Yeah, but the training set is nowhere near clean. That’s my point. “Close” is no where near good enough within this context,

        • @BURN@lemmy.world
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          2311 months ago

          Facebook couldn’t build a model that has 100% accuracy on if something is a dog or a cat, let alone if a woman is trans.

          • @Fisch@discuss.tchncs.de
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            Especially since you oftentimes can’t tell at all from just a picture. There’s cis woman that look more like a man than some trans women.

      • @Anamnesis@lemmy.world
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        1311 months ago

        Good point. I don’t want to date trans people, but I wouldn’t want to use an app that purposely excluded them. I’d rather occasionally have to go “oh sorry thanks for telling me” than restrict my dating pool to bigots.

      • Uriel238 [all pronouns]
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        We sometimes have to clarify that LGBT+ folk aren’t particularly virtuous, just people, and like the rest of the population suffers from its own share of internal bigotry. The lesbian community is no exception.

        Lesbians range from really rather bisexual to staunchly misandrist and there are different gatekeeping checkpoints, where some don’t count trans women as lesbians to others that don’t want to date a woman who’s ever been with a man (which makes for a really small dating pool).

        But this kind of exclusion is not about who these women date, rather who they allow into their community and are allowed to come to their potlucks and tea parties. Generally communities that are progressive and have experienced external oppression and dehumanization are glad to be welcoming and inclusive. Mostly. And I think this includes the lesbian community.

        From my experience. I’ll get to how that’s tricky.

        I’ve found the lesbian circles I’ve engaged with have been even more inclusive than the general LGBT+ community. They’re actually really good about including bisexuals and trans women that are into women. However, this is partly due to the anthropic principle: Even though I’m enby I still have [M] on my state ID, look like a dude and have male parts, and have been completely forthright about this even in online circles (e.g. r/actuallesbians) where no-one would ever know I was really a cat. But this means that I don’t get invites to circles that are more restrictive, since I’d be high on the no-admittance list.

        But inclusive lesbians are not super fond of less inclusive ones, especially since human sexuality can change over time. The closet has multiple doors, and when your best friend who invites you to all the get-togethers is a women-only transphobe second-wave feminist (this was a thing), and suddenly you’ve been taking an interest in a special guy, you’re going to keep your bi-curiosity hidden from your friend (or stop being friends). And as per the whole thing of coming out, the point of the LGBT+ community is being able to be who you are, and being accepted and validated.

        So when I see a lesbians dating app that is intentionally looking to draw transphobes, it reminds me of those conservative dating apps to hook up men in the white power movement with trad-wife minded women, which is to say it’s good they’re over there and not trying to date people over here that they’re ultimately going to disappoint and hurt.

    • @Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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      411 months ago

      It’s absolutely happened to me. I also don’t understand. Maybe the reasoning is, if they get me to invest enough time then maybe I’ll suddenly be sexually attracted to penises? I don’t know.

      • @Skydancer@pawb.social
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        Having known multiple trans people and heard them talk about the arguments for and against early disclosure: Fear.

        1. They may not be public about their status, and fear exposure to family or coworkers seeing their public profile.

        2. They may fear harassment from transphobes. This could range from DM accusations of pedophilia to religious screeds to doxxing to death threats.

        3. They may be trying to avoid “chasers.” There are some people for whom a trans body (particularly a transfem body) is a fetish, who don’t actually care about the person inside. Plenty of transpeople don’t appreciate that kind of attention.

        4. Fear of rejection. They may believe that nobody will respond if they’re open about not being cis.

        Also two less fear-related (and less common) possibilities:

        1. Ideology. To some people, specifying “transman” or “transwoman” reinforces a social distinction they find invalidating or don’t accept. How many profiles have you seen that specify themselves as “cisman” or “ciswoman”? For these people, it’s a way of rejecting cisgender normativity.

        2. Maybe they just aren’t ready to talk about their genitals yet, or have their first conversation be about their surgical plans or history. Not only can get really repetitive having that be the first conversation with every single match, it means they don’t get any of the information they’re looking for about a potential partner until much later in the process and have to invest a lot of their own time up front. Just like you want the salient information you care about early on, so do they.

        • r3df0x ✡️✝☪️
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          211 months ago

          #1

          If you’re not openly trans, then you really shouldn’t be dating online because that’s a risk.

          #3

          My sister was open about it and she got creepy Neo Nazis looking for Russian girlfriends.

      • katy ✨
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        211 months ago

        lots (not all!) of 20-30 year old men with shitty opinions these days thanks to gamergate and joe rogan…

        • @afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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          311 months ago

          Ok fine then I am out of ideas.

          Also do you really want this? I mean I am glad me and my wife basically agree on politics but that is a really tiny part of our relationship. I can’t imagine sitting on some app using selection bubbles to find girls who are perfectly aligned with my stance on every issue, knowing that this was the biggest reason why they are also there.

          • nifty
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            311 months ago

            Me, personally? I have no horse in this race. I was just saying it’s inaccurate to imply that only under 25s are not conservative