We spend our days bound by endless obligations. Yet, even with loneliness, failed relationships, and soul-draining work, people still manage to catch a glimpse of happiness. Why?

  • southsamurai
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    683 months ago

    Well, that’s kinda the point.

    If you assume that all we get is what we have while we’re alive, then that life becomes the point

    A lot of people that reach the conclusions you have, opt out. They move into a commune, they go vagabond, they may choose to just flit between jobs and find whatever fun is in them.

    Or, they may decide to become focused on finding purpose within the world that is, the societal structures as they exist. Some of those devote themselves to service, or find jobs that they believe make life better for others.

    Some stay in the framework of things, but do the bare minimum and focus on their off time their purpose.

    The point of it, from that point of view where this is all we get, is to find what makes staying alive worth it.

    It isn’t like the certainty of no afterlife removes your ability to live and love and do good things. It can make it harder to bear the bad things of life as well, but that’s anything really.

    The point is what you decide it is.

  • z3rOR0ne
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    03 months ago

    The meaning of life is to search for the meaning of life.

  • @Nefara@lemmy.world
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    103 months ago

    Whatever you want. Find something that brings you joy and try to do more of that. If it’s important to you to leave a legacy, try to connect to others and be in their lives. Try to make good, meaningful changes to the world, even if they’re small. Our existences are only so long, and worth enjoying.

  • CurlyWurlies4All
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    43 months ago

    What do we owe to each other? For coexistence without inherent meaning in an afterlife, is the only source of moral good the social contract that we’ve made with each other to coexist peacefully? What are the bounds of that contract? What are the terms of our coexistence?

  • Jolly Platypus
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    33 months ago

    Whatever you decide to make of it, which is an incredibly beautiful thing.

  • I guess everybody will come up with different answers to that.

    To me, saying “there is nothing after death” is a simplified model. It asks you to live in the here-and-now, to live in the moment, because that makes you productive today.

    Of course, the world won’t end when you die. You will leave an impact on the world, kind of a track. Like, when water flows over a landscape long enough, it leaves a river bed. That will stay, even after the water subsides.

    So in some sense, death might be your end, but it’s not the end. I don’t know whether that helped you.

    • @coaxil@lemm.ee
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      3 months ago

      That absolutely is not the point I have made and determined for my run at existence lol

      • @Phil_in_here@lemmy.ca
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        33 months ago

        Hell yeah!

        I have procreated and passed off my genes, but it’s bullshit to tell other people that’s the point of being alive.

        You gotta do what you feel is right. If nothing feels worthwhile, make the best of the ride!

  • @GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca
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    63 months ago

    It’s a sandbox survival game. So, the first step is to survive to the point where you can start making choices, the next step is to figure out what you want your goals to be. Then, the hard part. How will you achieve those goals?

  • HubertManne
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    53 months ago

    Its something for us to decide. It may very well be meaningless but in the end I would rather exist than not exist overall although I would not mind existence being over as it will be someday. Hope if does before it becomes to awful.

  • @Jourei@lemm.ee
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    33 months ago

    In my book, it doesn’t have a purpose, everything only matters for a brief moment in your life. “This too shall pass”, for better and for good.