• @ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    12 years ago

    Even worse is for example domestic violence and abuse victims who might have a secret phone stashed away which could be located with the very loud emergency alert. I seem to recall posts going around to notify those people to have their phone turned off during that time.

  • BolexForSoup
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    12 years ago

    Mr Yoder said that one of his friends was in the middle of a visit with community elders to discuss a shunning for different reasons when the alert on his phone went off.

    I know this is a terrible day for that person, but it is really hard not to find the humor in this little snippet of the story.

  • @beckerist@lemmy.world
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    12 years ago

    As “innocent” as they are portrayed, the hypocrisy is the least of their problems. Their abuse of both people and animals is extremely widespread and rarely talked about.

        • Part of mainstream Amish theology is basically that it’s the job of the community to handle people sinning, not outsiders, and after rape has been “handled” by a period of shunning it’s basically forbidden for community members to not re-embrace them, including their victim.

          Fucking nightmare for the victims, for obvious reasons.

    • @theangryseal@lemmy.world
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      The man they mention in this article (Eli Yoder) regularly brings it up and confronts it.

      He interviewed a woman one time who was raped by her brothers and she got in trouble right along with them for being “tempting” and not modest enough.

      The abuse started when she was a small child.

      They don’t go to the police when they catch people, they take them to the elders and punish them within the group. They usually just get shunned for a bit.

      Wives regularly get blamed when their daughters are abused by their husbands. “You should do your wifely duties so he isn’t tempted.”

      I’ve heard some wild stories watching this guy.

      He really works hard to bring education and information to people who are trapped in that reality. He also provides resources and support when people want to escape.