Noticed not many people use curse words.

So… why the fuck not?

  • @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    101 year ago

    The common “curse” words like “shit” and “fuck” are pretty impersonal. They can signal an escalation, but are typically pretty minor. They don’t even do that when the speaker is like “I just took a huge shit. Don’t go in there for a while”

    Other words, like racial slurs and anti-queer stuff, invoke more history and violence. If someone calls someone an asshole that’s probably not that big a deal. If they call someone a n-word f-gay-slur, there might be a hate crime about to happen.

    So I don’t use those words. I don’t want to bring the stuff they import into the scene.

    People who are the typical recipients of the slurs using them themselves is a related topic I’m not very qualified to speak on, and I wouldn’t try to police their language.

    • Yeah, no idea what OP expected.

      My two cents is that swearing with people you don’t know might lead to misunderstandings, so probably it would be best to keep that shit to a minimum.

  • Philo
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    201 year ago

    It makes me laugh when some people give certain words magical powers. They are just fucking words for Christ’s sake.

    • @jj4211@lemmy.world
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      41 year ago

      Given the way humanity works, words generally do and should have power (“profane” or otherwise). If they don’t, what’s the point?

      On profanity, to me it’s a set of special words to break out for emphasis. If I just casually use them, then they lose value as emphasis. If those words were just as mundane as others, what would be the point of their existence?

    • Victor
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      They’re not “magical”, they just have meaning and connotations.

    • @Globulart@lemmy.world
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      71 year ago

      But certain words DO have power, even if it’s just power attributed by others it’s still power, and it’s really naive to think they don’t.

      • @cosmicrookie@lemmy.world
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        Agreed. Words are what made us different than animals and words describing abstract ideas made us better than other primates. Words are maybe the strongest power we have

  • @Varyk@sh.itjust.works
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    131 year ago

    You are frequenting an incredibly select number of communities.

    Also, discussions tend to be more respectful here than on low bars like reddit, so crutches like swearing don’t come into play as much.

    In my case, my f****** speech to text won’t f****** write out the c*** d*** c*** swear words, which I think is hilarious.

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        1 year ago

        I assume there is, but the asterisks make me laugh every time, like when Aubrey plaza has her mouth blanked out every time she swears at Scott Pilgrim

    • Dr. Bob
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      1 year ago

      Check out the fucking cunt whose fancy fucking transcription software turns out to be a steaming pile of bullshit that won’t even pick up basic fucking words like cum guzzling knob goblin.

      eta: Merry Fucking Christmas.

  • R. J. Gumby
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    11 year ago

    I’ve been accused of vulgarity. I say that’s bullshit. – Mel Brooks

  • H3‎
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    41 year ago

    This is the internet. You can say “fuck”

  • @stoy@lemmy.zip
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    461 year ago

    You may often be understood quite well even without using harsh language in every fucking sentence.

    Infact, refraining from using harsh language increases the impact of it when you actually need to for some god damned reason.

    So please, consider using some bloody restraint, and only curse when you actually shit ass need to.

    I hope that this comment has cleared it up for you, have a lovely new year!

  • @LordTrychon@startrek.website
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    1 year ago

    Cursing and not cursing will both get you pretty much no reaction here.

    But… if you self censor curse words with f*** or s***… some lemmings lose their $#!+!